# I’ve finally beaten childhood trauma

- URL: https://numo.ai/community/0nqh15y/ive-finally-beaten-childhood-trauma
- Language: en
- Author: @IGFIVEESUMN
- Posted: 2023-12-08T15:56:45.032Z
- Updated: 2023-12-08T15:56:58.450Z
- Tag: hack/tip
- Comments: 9
- Likes: 50

After 24 years I’ve beat childhood trauma, my biggest demon I carried daily, the first step was cutting those who hurt you off, completely emotionally detached, understand how we got problems we don’t understand and so does other people, as people with adhd we have the super power to put things into perspective from trying to understand your pain, so put yourself in a perspective of a lover who can’t love or understand their own communication, then put you in your parents shoes being young tryna learn yourself and having a child you can’t understand and know your failing them but scared of the accountability, it’s not right that the shit happened but it wasn’t on purpose, there’s a gap of communication and understanding, instead of crying about it move on like they did and understand that shit is beyond you, you don’t gotta forgive em, I’ll never fw my parents in my life, but I no longer hate them I’m just staying in a space of mental clarify by staying far away from them and never speaking on them, I feel at ease now!

## Comments (9)

### @the mighty one — 2025-04-28T22:02:35.583Z

Thank you so much for sharing that

### @blondeskyler — 2025-02-17T07:16:20.222Z

You're so brave for sharing your story.  You are helping so many people.

### @Sonicthinker — 2024-05-28T11:41:53.173Z

I can relate to that it also helped me. Especially cutting toxic friendships off is also beneficial

### @jellybeanqueen — 2023-12-15T00:25:09.261Z

I’m happy for you. I hope every day for you is better than the last.

### @mcmadison — 2023-12-13T01:59:58.227Z

Congratulations!

### @Ryevlantheditz — 2023-12-11T06:29:31.466Z

This is awesome for you!

### @OuterSpaceGurL — 2023-12-10T03:50:34.564Z

I 💙 this. I’m so happy for u for finding peace.

### @KatyMc — 2023-12-09T12:15:22.495Z

So much truth right here!

### @katbs — 2023-12-08T16:38:22.101Z

The year I turned 25, my dad turned 50. It was when I realized he was 25 years old when I was born, so I was an infant, and there were three other kids in the house ranging in age from 18 months to 13 years, that I forgave him for not being a great dad. 

If I'd had four kids to deal with at age 25, I'd have been an absolute mess.