# Explaining ADHD to my husband

- URL: https://numo.ai/community/3pmwRSmQgRrWUMjcVnNc/explaining-adhd-to-my-husband
- Language: en
- Author: @katasker
- Posted: 2023-07-07T14:01:55.591Z
- Tag: question
- Comments: 3
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Are there any recommended resources to share with my husband that might help him understand me a little better. He is extremely supportive but sometimes I just feel like he doesn’t get it (understandably) and I want to provide him some helpful information for 1. Understanding and 2. How to help me. 

He said to me this morning “I get it, sometimes I have a really hard time focusing too” …. And I didn’t know how to explain that it’s so much more than that. 

## Comments (3)

### @SR1404 — 2023-07-11T12:08:57.064Z

Well I have shown tiktoks to my partner, and also talk him through my experiences, I also have accepted that maybe he doesn’t have to fully understand it for him to be empathetic with my situation without judging me.  
Sometimes I just want to talk about how I feel or maybe complain, so we ask each other “do you need a logical answer or an emotional one? Or, is this an emotional conversation or a problem solving one?” and that has helped us ALOT!

Hope this helps ◡̈

### @madMax28 — 2023-07-07T16:22:07.406Z

I hear you thats how my mom sees it too   
It's normal to feel this way everyone feels this way sometimes......ya ok but for me it's not just sometimes its ALL the time

### @Retreiver_gf — 2023-07-07T16:17:13.687Z

Brene Brown just posted a youtube video on it.