# Selflove

- URL: https://numo.ai/community/Y3cYim3BimmtFkTx6E2R/selflove
- Language: en
- Author: @anonymous
- Posted: 2023-05-27T21:00:28.719Z
- Tag: question
- Comments: 3
- Likes: 3

Self love and talking positive about/to myself is a huge problem for me. Any tips besides writing every day one positive thing? Many Thanks! And tips how to maintain writing every day? 

## Comments (2)

### @Lorelei88  — 2023-05-27T23:05:02.762Z

I just had a thought earlier today thinking about how I don't have as many close friends, so I thought I could take myself out for things and check in with myself and think it speak to myself as if I were talking to a close friend to trick myself into being nicer to me.

### @DBear — 2023-05-27T22:33:59.876Z

Reframe mistakes you make with gratitude. Instead of, “I’m sorry I’m late,” I try to say, “Thank you for waiting for me. I would have been disappointed to have missed you.” Errors are human. Punishing yourself for making mistakes doesn’t really do anyone any good; however, you know you have friends that will wait for you. You notice what they have done on your behalf.   
You let yourself of the hook, instead going into a negative self-talk spiral.   
Maybe it’s not the best advice, but I find it helpful.