# When I procrastinate I feel guilty because I have not done a task

- URL: https://numo.ai/community/j8chcly/when-i-procrastinate-i-feel
- Language: en
- Author: @itsmyfault?
- Posted: 2023-08-18T16:41:04.504Z
- Tag: question
- Comments: 6
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Does anyone know a remedy for these constant thoughts?

## Comments (4)

### @a_monalisa — 2023-08-19T00:53:48.851Z

I try super hard when I catch myself saying things like “uh, you forgot again or waited to the last min” I stop myself and say “there are plenty of people not doing the thing that they should and don’t care at all, but atleast I feel bad about it, your doing more than most would do“ then I try to muster the energy to even just do alittle to “stick it” to the ones who aren’t.. I guess it’s my ego that makes me want to try harder 😅

### @adhdcurrent — 2023-08-18T22:34:26.719Z

I used to start with five minute commitment to the task I was procrastinating - sometimes that lead to more time on it; sometimes only five minutes but it was five more than I would have done

### @Flower13oy — 2023-08-18T17:26:41.694Z

Definitely relate. Psychologically that only serves to negatively reinforce remembering , so my work around was consciously trying to rewrite my response to something more like “ oh cool I remembered and in the time between forgetting and remembering I did X Y Z other productive thing. I’m killin it”

### @reet1111 — 2023-08-18T16:49:57.039Z

When I remember I’ve forgotten something I used to bear myself up and get further in the slump. So I began retraining my thinking. When I thought “see you are useless” I would physically stop and consciously make myself think “hey it’s cool cause you just remembered you forgot! Now you get to do it or set a reminder to do it when you get home. Now I’m much less intense about my bad self talk.