# neurotypical friends

- URL: https://numo.ai/community/omrd9vc/neurotypical-friends
- Language: en
- Author: @procrastequeen
- Posted: 2025-11-30T17:02:01.839Z
- Tag: question
- Comments: 4
- Likes: 3

it is so flustrating when they don’t understand the struggle of adhd and being on the inattentive side. they think i just don’t care about anything or anyone when it’s just my brain struggling with everything around me. i love my friends but they think im “turning into a bad person” and its making feel like i am

## Comments (4)

### @Blabla — 2025-12-04T16:28:42.936Z

i barely have, I guess, they are nearly all neurodivers, I don't have many in my hometown though

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### @cuddly — 2025-12-02T18:40:41.407Z

Do you have neurodivergent friends? Also does this happen for specific instances? Like was it someone’s birthday? Or are you forgetting to answer texts? What is the context?

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### @boyofsummer — 2025-12-01T01:54:16.114Z

In short… We are doing more work than them but they’re getting more things done. it’s terrible.

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### @boyofsummer — 2025-12-01T01:54:07.585Z

that’s so annoying and frustrating omfg. this reminds me of a song lyric from my fav band it’s “you wanna move mountains? well, i do too…” when everyone thinks ur just sitting around!!!! ughhh. like… we’re working harder on the inside and they’re just successful without trying

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