# Just need some help 

- URL: https://numo.ai/community/sunhvop/just-need-some-help
- Language: en
- Author: @Bob1234
- Posted: 2025-06-03T00:56:59.086Z
- Tag: other
- Comments: 7
- Likes: 4

I’m a 13 year old girl who has struggled with ADHD and anxiety. Recently I have developed a sort of crush on one of my friends and I really want to tell him but every time I do I get scared and don’t. This is one of my last options. If anyone can help I would appreciate it 

## Comments (5)

### @chappellinglife — 2025-06-09T07:35:27.120Z

Hey hun! I’m ~15 yrs older than u but I’ve definitely been where there. Here’s the deal. U will eventually find the right time & ur own way to tell him. U will figure that out for sure!   
Once u do, he either reciprocates the feelings, or he doesn’t.   
I get it! The possibility of rejection is nerve wracking! 🥲  
But if he reciprocates the feelings… then that’s beautiful!!!! 🥹 Congrats! I hope he’s got a kind heart & treats u well 💕  
If he doesn’t… that’s ok too! Sure it’s gonna suck at first! Like… it’s gonna hurt bad… 😬but nothing that a couple of buckets of ice cream + sad songs/movies + girls night can’t fix! 😊   
Life is filled w/ a series of rejections & failures until u find the right person & the right place where u belong. Don’t question ur worth cause some boy turned u down. U’re so much more than the ppl u date or befriend. 

1) Take the step once u’re ready.   
2) Voice ur desires. Speak up for urself.   
3) Be kind to urself if things don’t go as u hoped they would. This applies to all other life events too.

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### @Mia233 — 2025-06-05T09:41:02.208Z

If he sees your text and still not answer…it may be a negative signal or he just didn't see it.

Talk to him directly about your feelings. Life is too short to lose the chance٩(˃̶͈̀௰˂̶͈́)و

You can do it!

### @whalla brr — 2025-06-04T13:23:33.571Z

Yo girl i got my first gf a long time ago she made a friend give a letter to me about that and i was flawless. But remember some People are red flags

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### @Mia233 — 2025-06-03T04:42:53.018Z

Or write a letter and give it to him

#### @Bob1234 — 2025-06-03T11:13:07.009Z

That failed multiple times but thanks for your advice

### @Mia233 — 2025-06-03T04:42:27.517Z

Did you try text him? I think texting can make you feel less nervous

#### @Bob1234 — 2025-06-03T11:11:39.207Z

I did try texting him but he never answered