# Do you guys hiperfixate with a new person?

- URL: https://numo.ai/community/ws6ksmh/do-you-guys-hiperfixate-with-a-new-person
- Language: en
- Author: @anonymous
- Posted: 2025-08-12T16:50:59.883Z
- Tag: question
- Comments: 5
- Likes: 7

You know that you just started to date and don’t even know if it’s going anywhere or whatever

## Comments (3)

### @cuddly — 2025-08-14T12:10:17.568Z

Yes, but very specific people and only after I trust them. I tone down later, but I don’t experience this “loose interest quickly” or “get bored” with these people. I tend to appreciate a 2-way loyalty.

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#### @Unknown — 2025-08-15T16:37:27.431Z

I think I just experience the exact opposite.  
I do it even if we are just meeting (also I do this only with romantic partners) and I often do get bored quickly and easy 😫🫠🙃

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#### @cuddly — 2025-08-20T09:39:51.190Z

I think yours is the more common ADHD response don’t loose courage you are not alone! 🤩

### @CrowDoesStuff — 2025-08-13T11:00:02.742Z

honestly i do this with friends so often

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### @akwmmw — 2025-08-12T17:33:13.444Z

Yesss, one of the best thing to remain grounded I think is to keep meeting friends, so you manage the "weight" you're gonna give

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