# I found THE person

- URL: https://numo.ai/es/community/tq1lrye/jai-trouve-la-personne
- Language: es
- Original language: fr
- Author: @elora.brgc
- Posted: 2026-05-07T21:59:29.228Z
- Updated: 2026-05-11T05:30:54.430Z
- Tag: question
- Comments: 5
- Likes: 7

I don't know if you have this person in your life, but I found them and for nothing in the world would I let them get away.   
You know that feeling of being proud, of having succeeded, or of feeling better? That's exactly what I feel now.   
Actually, this person is a guy from my class with whom I was very close at the beginning of the year, but from whom I had distanced myself because the whole high school was spreading rumors that we were together. I was fed up, it wasn't true, and every time I did something, people would say things like "love is beautiful," "oh, it's obvious you love him," and so on... So I distanced myself so much that it broke our incredible friendship, which I bitterly regret. Even people (who wished me ill) told me he was bad and many other completely false things that made me distance myself from him more and more... Not so long ago, I saw the truth and told him we needed to talk. He was scared at first, but I explained everything that had happened, and he understood. We apologized and got closer, but not as much as before. Then one day, I had noticed for some time, I told him it made me sad to see him upset like that, and he explained everything to me. I'm the only one who knows what's going on in his private life and all his problems. I feel like I can trust him and tell him all my problems, which are not easy at all to say, given their importance and impact. With him, I can say anything, and I even always want to talk to him like an addiction, maybe because he's the only person I can tell everything to. Sometimes there are awkward moments because he's a guy and I'm a girl, and we can't do everything just the two of us... My only problem is that I don't know if it's complicity, a very strong and present fusion friendship, attraction, or even love...   
If you recognize yourself in this situation (being really very close to someone), tell me if you know the feelings you experience, your meeting, your story, I want to know everything!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼  
Tell me everything in the comments!!   
Big kisses to the community!!! 🫶🏼🙌🏼😘😘

## Comments (2)

### @pizzettatime — 2026-05-10T22:10:46.042Z

Reading your comment gave me an absurd amount of anxiety, but it's also true that I have trust issues with others. Thinking about confiding such deep things to someone I'm just starting to date would make me freak out.   
This is to tell you that yes, I have had and still have deep and beautiful friendships, but always with a solid foundation (I'm talking about years, not just a few months of acquaintance).

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#### @elora.brgc — 2026-05-11T05:30:32.716Z

Oh, I'm sorry that caused you anxiety... but maybe it's because it reflects a part of your life that you can't unconsciously explain. After all, it's true that my feelings might be skewed by the adrenaline of having found someone to talk to, or the fact that as soon as I meet someone who understands me and confides in me, who gets close to me, I immediately do too much and I know it's bad. But if I don't do enough, I feel like that person will leave... but anyway, that's not the point...  
In any case, thank you very much for your comment!!!! 🫶🏼🙌🏼

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### @jw2007 — 2026-05-08T18:32:02.718Z

I think, in my own opinion, this is a very beautiful and strong friendship!  
You are both the person for one another to lean upon - for anything - but from reading what you have written here, it sounds like you both definitely have a deep, lovely friendship, and that is what you two should continue sharing.  
Maybe in time, things will change again. You’re both still in school. Give your lives time to develop more before thinking you are in love-love.  
With ADHD, we often want to jump to loving people so completely and very compulsively.  
So, deep breaths, deep introspection, and deep, happy friendship energy.  
To all of the other people in school - haters gonna hate, because what you’ve got is all too great! 😉

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#### @elora.brgc — 2026-05-08T22:07:04.501Z

But I have a question 🙋🏽‍♀️!! Is it normal that it hurts me when people tell me: our FRIENDSHIP, you are very good FRIENDS, your deep FRIENDSHIP shouldn't CHANGE??

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#### @elora.brgc — 2026-05-08T21:31:50.860Z

Thank you very much, you really have no idea how much what you're telling me helps me enormously in my current situation, and I truly thank you with all my heart ❤️ 🫶🏼🙌🏼😍 !!

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