# Low self-esteem! So afraid of applying for a new job? 😫


- URL: https://numo.ai/uk/community/8lz2si8/low-self-esteem-so-afraid-of-applying-for-a-new-job
- Language: uk
- Author: @flattop
- Posted: 2024-07-07T16:47:25.146Z
- Updated: 2024-07-08T13:46:55.378Z
- Tag: hack/tip
- Comments: 1
- Likes: 13

I recently quit my job because my boss was very condescending towards me.   
and didn't want to give me any training time

## Comments (2)

### @myseriousface — 2024-07-12T14:57:55.135Z

That sucks. I’m sorry to hear someone treated you with disrespect. That person was clearly not effective at their job because degrading others is not a leadership quality. IMHO, you should let that be a “them problem”.  Remind yourself of your value and your good traits (we all have good stuff and bad stuff 🤷🏻‍♀️), do something nice for yourself, and then get back out there!  Good on you for not staying in an abusive situation. I know this all sounds similar to relationship advice lol, but we spend a lot of time at our jobs, so work environment is important. Good luck to you. You got this. 

### @Unknown — 2024-07-08T13:38:30.371Z

I work with the upper echelons of my field 📚

So lemme tell you something: they’re all fallible – every f\*\*\*\*n one of them.  Just remember that: we’re all fallible humans.

They’re bright, yes, but they all have the same desires and fears and fallibilities as f\*\*\*\*in everyone else.

So don’t let anyone make you feel bad or inferior about yourself in this world.

Just try to do your best every damn day.  And if your best is a small amount every day, that’s really ok.

With that confidence, approach the world and be humble, open to learn, open to feedback, and open to getting better.

This way, hopefully you’ll find something that fits you in this world.

Good luck 🍀