Аватар користувача(-ки) bandarford
bandarford
13
3 роки тому

Bad at replying

I’m really bad at replying quickly to my friends and wish that they didn’t expect that from me yet at the same time hate when someone I care about is slow to reply or leaves me on read because I feel like they don’t like me 😂 Anyone relate?



Дописи й коментарі тут висвітлюють власний досвід, а не медичні поради. Щодо лікування консультуйся з лікарем.


Аватар користувача(-ки) Eiren
Eiren
1
3 роки тому

Me too! It’s like replying quickly is a huge task I can’t overcome, and it makes me kind of anxious knowing that a reply is expected.


Аватар користувача(-ки) purelycryptic
purelycryptic
1
3 роки тому

One of my biggest probelms. Lost friends over this.


Аватар користувача(-ки) Jam~Jam
Jam~Jam
12
3 роки тому

Me too!!!


Аватар користувача(-ки) Ninini
Ninini
1
3 роки тому

I feel you!


Аватар користувача(-ки) luvsic
luvsic
1
3 роки тому

What pops in to my mind reading this is the issue of taking late replies personally, both from their and your perspective, and whether or not your friends are worth making a conscious effort to reply quicker for. But I’m the same way with replies, I don’t really care if I get a late one and most of the people I talk to don’t either lol. I even go as far as to return their apology when they’re sorry for replying late because I just see it as unnecessary


Аватар користувача(-ки) PostTurtle
PostTurtle
1
3 роки тому

I can relate, I never know what is expected exactly