You’re not alone ♥️♥️♥️ I enjoy bits and pieces but I NEED to set aside and guard time at home alone because I feel so drained by the darkness and dreary weather and overwhelmed by my kids inside more often AND add on all the extra activities and expectations. Guard your time. It’s ok to say “I’m really looking forward to the quiet times of reflection on the year I’ve set aside in this season.” And say no to things sometimes: actually, I have something scheduled that day. If they ask you what you can say “thanks for asking! I actually need to schedule reset and reflection times to make sure I’m really spending time on what matters and not running in a direction that is unproductive, draining and will lead to me breaking down physically, mentally, emotionally or all three. That day is a personal reflection and reset day. I’d be happy to schedule something with you a different day, or if you’d like to check in with me that day over [text, email, whatever you like] to see how I’m doing or if I need anything you’re welcome to do that! I appreciate the interest you’ve taken in my well being and schedule!
