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Аватар користувача(-ки) anya_bitsu
anya_bitsu
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2 роки тому

Does anyone also have no idea how to shut up sometimes?

I think it’s not only connected to my personal temper, but to ADHD too. Sometimes I have so much thoughts and feelings, so I can’t control them at all. I know that I’m saying something that I should not at the moment, but still continue. It makes me anxious after all. I think how other people are discussing such situations and think that I’m cringe. Everyone says people don’t care much about others, but I don’t believe it because I do care much and overthinking about myself and others and so on 😫 Please Goddess give me ability to control my mouth

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Аватар користувача(-ки) goldenretriever
goldenretriever
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2 роки тому

Before I told my friends that I had adhd, they were always so confused as to why I always had so much energy and craziness. But after I finally told them, they understand me better now and they’re not quite so confused. This probably dosent help you much but thanks for listening anyway!! 😊

Аватар користувача(-ки) patsycakes
patsycakes
3
2 роки тому

Every day of my life!

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Аватар користувача(-ки) Pumpkinska
Pumpkinska
13
2 роки тому

I'm either silent, or over sharing

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Аватар користувача(-ки) Pumpkinska
Pumpkinska2 роки тому

I get pretty withdrawn... Unless on a special topic!

Аватар користувача(-ки) patsycakes
patsycakes2 роки тому

I am jealous of that!

Аватар користувача(-ки) Mia233
Mia233минулого року

Same. It also confused me a lot during my whole childhood. I don't know if it helps but maybe listening to others more helps(the problem of over sharing can be reduced in this process.) A friend of mine also got ADHD but she never has this problem as I do. The difference of our convo mode ,as I conclude like a creepy stalker🤣, is that she listens much more than talking. (She asks questions--back-and-forth conversation--smooth conv without she sharing too much) Anyway, you're changing the moment you want to improve. 😉Even though you're already perfect the way you are🔆

Аватар користувача(-ки) adhd_teacher3
adhd_teacher3
4
2 роки тому

I can never end a conversation. It goes on and on…..

Аватар користувача(-ки) Wishla
Wishla
33
2 роки тому

Oversharing here..🥲

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Аватар користувача(-ки) cuddly
cuddly
36
2 роки тому

I have noticed that when I have consistent friends around me who understand and like me I need to talk less. I see this being a problem harder for me to control when I am lonely. I try to mitigate this by having intentional phone calls with people who I know enjoy my presence at times when it energizes them too.

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Аватар користувача(-ки) anya_bitsu
anya_bitsu2 роки тому

Thanks. I think I will try to track this issue, because it’s partially relatable to me. I still talk a lot around my close friends, but sometimes they make me less hyperactive

Аватар користувача(-ки) Kathabla
Kathabla
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I know how you feel I’m the same but for a few days i saw a lady which explained that people which we‘re have been nessessory that others are safe in older times and we‘re don’t needed these times but I think the other explanation is better cause we think quicker and more and see as overthinkers the whole picture of things or consequences and can do tasks quicker

Аватар користувача(-ки) adhdani98
adhdani98
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2 роки тому

Yes 🙌🏼 I am well known for my mouth 😂 I often feel as though I’ve upset people and have anxiety about being responsible for people being in a bad mood and then sit and relive that whole day analysing everything I’ve said and done that could have upset the person, it’s a nightmare!!

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