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Аватар anya_bitsu
anya_bitsu
30
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Does anyone also have no idea how to shut up sometimes?

I think it’s not only connected to my personal temper, but to ADHD too. Sometimes I have so much thoughts and feelings, so I can’t control them at all. I know that I’m saying something that I should not at the moment, but still continue. It makes me anxious after all. I think how other people are discussing such situations and think that I’m cringe. Everyone says people don’t care much about others, but I don’t believe it because I do care much and overthinking about myself and others and so on 😫 Please Goddess give me ability to control my mouth

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Аватар goldenretriever
goldenretriever
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Before I told my friends that I had adhd, they were always so confused as to why I always had so much energy and craziness. But after I finally told them, they understand me better now and they’re not quite so confused. This probably dosent help you much but thanks for listening anyway!! 😊

Аватар patsycakes
patsycakes
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2 роки тому

Every day of my life!

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Аватар Pumpkinska
Pumpkinska
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2 роки тому

I'm either silent, or over sharing

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Аватар Pumpkinska
Pumpkinska2 роки тому

I get pretty withdrawn... Unless on a special topic!

Аватар patsycakes
patsycakes2 роки тому

I am jealous of that!

Аватар Mia233
Mia233минулого року

Same. It also confused me a lot during my whole childhood. I don't know if it helps but maybe listening to others more helps(the problem of over sharing can be reduced in this process.) A friend of mine also got ADHD but she never has this problem as I do. The difference of our convo mode ,as I conclude like a creepy stalker🤣, is that she listens much more than talking. (She asks questions--back-and-forth conversation--smooth conv without she sharing too much) Anyway, you're changing the moment you want to improve. 😉Even though you're already perfect the way you are🔆

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Аватар adhd_teacher3
adhd_teacher3
4
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I can never end a conversation. It goes on and on…..

Аватар Wishla
Wishla
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Oversharing here..🥲

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Аватар cuddly
cuddly
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I have noticed that when I have consistent friends around me who understand and like me I need to talk less. I see this being a problem harder for me to control when I am lonely. I try to mitigate this by having intentional phone calls with people who I know enjoy my presence at times when it energizes them too.

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Аватар anya_bitsu
anya_bitsu2 роки тому

Thanks. I think I will try to track this issue, because it’s partially relatable to me. I still talk a lot around my close friends, but sometimes they make me less hyperactive

Аватар Kathabla
Kathabla
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I know how you feel I’m the same but for a few days i saw a lady which explained that people which we‘re have been nessessory that others are safe in older times and we‘re don’t needed these times but I think the other explanation is better cause we think quicker and more and see as overthinkers the whole picture of things or consequences and can do tasks quicker

Аватар adhdani98
adhdani98
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Yes 🙌🏼 I am well known for my mouth 😂 I often feel as though I’ve upset people and have anxiety about being responsible for people being in a bad mood and then sit and relive that whole day analysing everything I’ve said and done that could have upset the person, it’s a nightmare!!

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