My boyfriend hasn’t answered for 21 hours, I tried calling him 5 or 6 times, no answer. It is thanksgiving, but still. He texted me last night “I will be free all day tomorrow!” I tried texting him 24 times. No answer. I’m so scared. Anyone have any tips or any ideas of what could be happening?
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UPDATE!!!! He’s fine! He’s just at his dad’s house for a while, and he’s not allowed to have his phone there!! We don’t when he is going to his moms where he can have his phone but probably tomorrow!!!
Hey, how are you? Any updates? This situation really doesn’t feel great — being ignored like that is not fair to you. I hope he’s fine, though. My guess is it’s something Thanksgiving-related — family chaos, unexpected plans, maybe a “digital detox” day. Holidays can get messy. But still, you deserve communication, not silence. ❤️
I’m kinda scared, it’s been about 30 hours. He ALWAYS responds in the next 30-45 minutes. He even said “I will be free all day on thanksgiving”. It’s the day after thanksgiving
But I’m scared for one thing, he died. He texted me two days ago saying “I should just end my suffering” and that was the last day we talked. He also said “I should just steal my mom’s truck so I can crash” (we are only 14). I’m just scared of that possibility
great to read, that he's fine!
Don’t assume just the worst maybe something happened to his phone, nevertheless what he’s doing is pretty shitty
He also ALWAYS responds within 45 minutes
Do you have any mutual friends you can text to see if they’ve heard from him?
Nope
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