Does anyone know why this happens?

I don’t know why this happens. But it happens to me everyday of my life. Either when waking up in the morning. Or going to bed at night. It’s like I should probably….get up/ or go to bed. And even though I know I should. I don’t. It’s actually happening to me as I write this.

Heyyy! I actually get this A LOTTT and that’s why my room is always messy and I never do the tasks that need to be done. I’m no professional diagnosis person…but this sounds like ADHD paralysis. It’s when people with ADHD have all these things in their mind. Like, “get up u need to clean” or “stop doom scrolling” However, if your experiencing this paralysis js know that this is how ur body works. The best way to get rid of it for me is simply to lie down for a few minutes and to disconnect from any electronics that might be worsening ur paralysis. Another way is to literally use all your power to get up and do it like how missV said. It tends to be extremely hard but if u are able to overcome it it makes your life so much easier. I hope this helped!

Yes, I do. My tip is, talk with your Lucy(demon) Do it, do it , do it, do it, do it!!!!!!!!

Yes ofc

This is hell to me. It's so frustrating and it destroys so much in my everyday life, wish there was an off button for it 😩

Oooh I hate this so much. It's like there's a disconnect between your head, heart, and body.

I’m struggling with that right now. I had a doctor’s appointment yesterday, and I couldn’t move from the couch- it was too overwhelming. I rescheduled the appointment for May.

Hi Christian, yes it happens to me too 😅 !! But without the paralysis. Instead what happens to me, is that I do what I wanna do before sleep, but then if I do that... i don't sleep until 2:00 after midnight 😱 Nooooooo!!

Hi Christian, I’m not a professional in this field, though I went this and therapies enough to earn a PhD (in MY opinion only!). I called it “feeling overwhelmed”. The answer to the causes is the million dollar question. For me, it’s a lifelong challenge to improve along these lines. However, you don’t have to wait till the end of your life for it to improve some. One trick that Mel Robbins said, to get yourself out of bed to start doing something, is count backwards from 5 to 0. It’s like the countdown before takeoff, in the space program. The idea came to her from watching something like that, or whatever, but she later did some scientific research and she found something to back it up. Regardless! if you countdown from five and jump out of bed at Zero, you’ve broken the immobility’s hold on you—this one time. I wasn’t cured after that, but I could get out of bed when I did that. The other thing you need to do is to have tasks so small, that you can complete them and feel successful. If you don’t know how to break the bigger task into smaller ones, then just set a timer. I’m going to work at this for five minutes. After five minutes you’ve been successful. There’s a book called the power of 10 and it’s just doing that for 10 minutes. Whatever you choose to do if it’s easily attainable, and in the success.

Ooh 💯 percent! And in the moment it’s almost like the consequences don’t matter… ‘oh well I’ll just be late’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s like another world I’m in 😵‍💫 and when I get up to do something I just think ‘what was I doing all that time!?’

Yup. My schedule is hugely my own, so it can be difficult to get started in the morning. I had to get up at 5am to get work done when my twins were born. Now I seem to be rebelling against that notion, even though I could use the early rise.

I'm in bed right now. Making up reasons for myself why it's okay to not have gotten out of bed yet and at the same time beating myself up for being so f*cking lazy and unable to brake the cycle.

I’m right there with you! I feel like I live in an almost constant state of feeling totally paralyzed , both mentally and physically, even on days when I logically know that whatever taskbI have on my to do list isn’t difficult, and I’ve probably accomplished the same thing 1000 times before… but the mental gymnastics I have to do with myself to even consider getting my ass out of bed to just begin my day has brought me to tears more times than I’m proud to admit…it’s like an invisible force that is physically holding me down and I have no control over it. I don’t decide which days my brain lets it happen, and that by itself makes me feel helpless af. I’d love to hear any info or advice on the what and why of the “paralyzing stuckness “. Right now, I’m just doing my best to” trick myself “ to at the very least, get out of my head and get up for the day. Once I’m up and attempting to get ready, I sometimes snap out of it and can run thru the day like a well oiled machine, just getting shit done ALL day. Other days though…there’s just nothing I can do to get past feeling so paralyzed that not even an act of god can convince my body/mind to remember how to human for the day..shit, I’ve actually missed my own birthday dinner more than once because I was so badly stuck and sad most days out of the year…I’m proud of myself though for the small wins and the random days that I kick ass. They are not nearly asas few and far between as they used to be!

Yes, absolutely. 💯 This is when the NUMO approach of “touching the task” doing the smallest possible starting of a selected task might help you get going. Another approach is “start by eating the frog 🐸” which means doing the hardest task you have been putting off first.” For example, the other day I started with my laundry. Also take a look at your needs however. Are you getting enough sleep? Have you been drinking water? Going outside for vitamin D? (Especially if you are in England you might consider asking your GP about supplementing in the winter months. Possibly get some blood tests done.) Are you eating nutritionally dense foods? Are your sensory needs being met? (Earplugs, earphones, sleep mask, decluttered spaces, etc.) Are you over or under stimulated? These self-care steps are scientifically proven to reduce some ADHD symptoms or at least their intensity. Finally, I find music helps with “executive dysfunction” (hard time starting or transitioning tasks sometimes related to difficulties with short term memory) or body doubling videos or apps (ex. dubbii). P.s. “task pairing” (pairing something you find unpleasant with something you find unpleasant) ex. Music and doing dishes. I hope this helps.

I get you. It’s like my body’s passing out and I can’t feel it. My therapist told me it’s cause our body is protecting us from hurting ourselves while moving etc. Otherwise idk… 🙃✌️

I know that feeling - while it could definitely be task avoidance, as suggested, I know that I have a problem with transitions. Going out of one situation and into the next is often hard for me, even when the next situation is something positive. For example it takes a lot of energy to exit the car after coming home from work, even though the outlook to finally being home is positive, it still takes effort to actually make the transition. I don’t have a perfect solution for this yet, but knowing the issue already helps me a lot in overcoming it.

I am more than familiar with this situation. Even take a shower or brushing the teeth seems to „far away“ to accomplish on some days. It is like a wall of nothing that blocks you

Every damn time!😆

Yep happens to me all the time, it’s cause the things you need to do aren’t always fun or enjoyable and you stall doing them or you feel over whelmed so find it hard to move and get motivated. Just try one thing at a time xx

Yep, you are certainly in good company with this situation! Agree with what everyone else said- different ways of sharing about the overwhelm/freeze state that’s super common in adhd

There's another thing related to this, named "demand avoidance", if it's specifically true to you if SOMEONE ELSE or SOCIETY demands you to do "the thing" 🙃😅 Our tricky little brains are really making it a challenge sometimes 😅

The reason you get stuck there is called "task avoidance"... doing the things you need to do seems so impossible and exhausting that your brain/body just shut down and freeze 🥲