Bob1234s avatar
Bob1234
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Just need some help

I’m a 13 year old girl who has struggled with ADHD and anxiety. Recently I have developed a sort of crush on one of my friends and I really want to tell him but every time I do I get scared and don’t. This is one of my last options. If anyone can help I would appreciate it



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chappellinglifes avatar
chappellinglife
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Hey hun! I’m ~15 yrs older than u but I’ve definitely been where there. Here’s the deal. U will eventually find the right time & ur own way to tell him. U will figure that out for sure! Once u do, he either reciprocates the feelings, or he doesn’t. I get it! The possibility of rejection is nerve wracking! 🥲 But if he reciprocates the feelings… then that’s beautiful!!!! 🥹 Congrats! I hope he’s got a kind heart & treats u well 💕 If he doesn’t… that’s ok too! Sure it’s gonna suck at first! Like… it’s gonna hurt bad… 😬but nothing that a couple of buckets of ice cream + sad songs/movies + girls night can’t fix! 😊 Life is filled w/ a series of rejections & failures until u find the right person & the right place where u belong. Don’t question ur worth cause some boy turned u down. U’re so much more than the ppl u date or befriend. 1) Take the step once u’re ready. 2) Voice ur desires. Speak up for urself. 3) Be kind to urself if things don’t go as u hoped they would. This applies to all other life events too.


Mia233s avatar
Mia233
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If he sees your text and still not answer…it may be a negative signal or he just didn't see it. Talk to him directly about your feelings. Life is too short to lose the chance٩(˃̶͈̀௰˂̶͈́)و You can do it!


whalla brrs avatar
whalla brr
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Yo girl i got my first gf a long time ago she made a friend give a letter to me about that and i was flawless. But remember some People are red flags


Mia233s avatar
Mia233
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Or write a letter and give it to him

Bob1234s avatar
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That failed multiple times but thanks for your advice


Mia233s avatar
Mia233
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Did you try text him? I think texting can make you feel less nervous

Bob1234s avatar
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I did try texting him but he never answered