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Bob1234
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11 måneder siden

Just need some help

I’m a 13 year old girl who has struggled with ADHD and anxiety. Recently I have developed a sort of crush on one of my friends and I really want to tell him but every time I do I get scared and don’t. This is one of my last options. If anyone can help I would appreciate it


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Innlegg og kommentarer her deler personlige erfaringer — ikke medisinsk råd. For behandlingsspørsmål, snakk med en kliniker.


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chappellinglife
36
10 måneder siden

Hey hun! I’m ~15 yrs older than u but I’ve definitely been where there. Here’s the deal. U will eventually find the right time & ur own way to tell him. U will figure that out for sure! Once u do, he either reciprocates the feelings, or he doesn’t. I get it! The possibility of rejection is nerve wracking! 🥲 But if he reciprocates the feelings… then that’s beautiful!!!! 🥹 Congrats! I hope he’s got a kind heart & treats u well 💕 If he doesn’t… that’s ok too! Sure it’s gonna suck at first! Like… it’s gonna hurt bad… 😬but nothing that a couple of buckets of ice cream + sad songs/movies + girls night can’t fix! 😊 Life is filled w/ a series of rejections & failures until u find the right person & the right place where u belong. Don’t question ur worth cause some boy turned u down. U’re so much more than the ppl u date or befriend. 1) Take the step once u’re ready. 2) Voice ur desires. Speak up for urself. 3) Be kind to urself if things don’t go as u hoped they would. This applies to all other life events too.


Mia233s avatar
Mia233
31
11 måneder siden

If he sees your text and still not answer…it may be a negative signal or he just didn't see it. Talk to him directly about your feelings. Life is too short to lose the chance٩(˃̶͈̀௰˂̶͈́)و You can do it!


whalla brrs avatar
whalla brr
14
11 måneder siden

Yo girl i got my first gf a long time ago she made a friend give a letter to me about that and i was flawless. But remember some People are red flags


Mia233s avatar
Mia233
31
11 måneder siden

Or write a letter and give it to him

Bob1234s avatar
Bob123411 måneder siden

That failed multiple times but thanks for your advice


Mia233s avatar
Mia233
31
11 måneder siden

Did you try text him? I think texting can make you feel less nervous

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Bob123411 måneder siden

I did try texting him but he never answered


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