So for awhile now my ADHD has been very in my face or maybe I stopped

Being oblivious to it but now that I’m even more hyper aware and hyper focused on myself and my mannerism I couldn’t help but start relating deeply to a lot of people who deal with autism to some degree. But it’s now to the point where I’m actually taking a step back and looking even further within myself and wondering am I really just “quirky” like everyone calls me or have I been rizzing people with the tism? Anywho hope I’m not alone here I’m tired of feeling crazy and I feel very dismissed and no one will take me serious because I’m “high functioning” (their words not mine) lol so my question is has anyone else felt this way?