Anybody also has a partner with ADHD?

Yes, I'm married to my husband who is undiagnosed (growing up in a country where ADHD isn't really known) and have 2 children, well teens with ADHD as well. Life truly gets messy and stressful 😅 but in the most beautiful chaotic and fun way. And emotions are always so deep and loud in our home🥰 wouldn't trade it for anything ❤️

I am married for a year now with my husband who also has ADHD. You’re totally right when saying life couldn’t be more fun😊 andd yes, also more messy.😌 But! it turns out it is less chaotic than I expected when we we’re dating. We both have different ADHD-struggles and we help each other a lot. For example, I am the worst at getting somewhere on time and I get so much stress of having to cook. But he loves cooking and is not that timeblind, so he makes the meals and cheers me on so I won’t be late for work. I help him by opening his mail and organizing the house a bit, things I don’t have that much trouble with. :) For each couple it is important to discuss who can do what best and how you can help eachother, but maybe for ADHD-couples this is extra important. And also, it’s just accepting the mess as part of your life I guess. In the kitchen we have a little wooden sign saying: a clean kitchen is a sign of a wasted life. That is a reasurring thing to be reminded of and helps to not take life too serious😉

My bestie has ADHD and I feel she is the person who can truly understand me! It's so lucky of you to find a soulmate♡(.◜ω◝.)♡

Yup. I have been with my husband for over 20 years. 2 years ago our daughter (now 10) was diagnosed with ADHD, then him and now me. We are a neurodivergent hurricane but there is also a lot of laughter, love, and curiosity. After 45 years of masking, I now understand why he has been the only one in the world to see me. It’s such a struggle to learn acceptance, but my daughter gets to grow up being seen every day and I am proud of that. Sooooo hard, wouldn’t want it any other way.

Haha, I feel you so hard! I’m the founder of this app, and both me and Yulia—my co-founder and ADHD life partner—are officially diagnosed. And honestly, I can’t imagine anything messier, harder, or more fun than building a company for people with ADHD… with ADHD. It’s chaos. It’s magic. It’s home.