Numo team Please help me ❤️‍🩹

Trigger warning. . . . . . I am going through an extreme crisis right now. Ive been doing Numo everyday for a more than 200days in a row Despite of struggling with an accident causing me injury and later on severe depression because of the unexpected death of my daughters father. Things have not been easy and my daughter is also suffering from a incontinence pathology… and now it turns out that her father has abused her. I know. That is something you don’t want anyone to say out loud and I’m so so so sorry for sharing this here as I fear it might be inappropriate… But I have been in shock and struggling so with my mental health, and on top of that these past 2 days have been crazy. I have been up and down busy with doctors appointments, interrogations etc… and I have lost my beautiful streak that I was so proud over, with only 1 day!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭 I might seem so stupid for me to complain about this, but I feel it takes away all this effort that I have made this whole year! I was so proud to have been sticking to something and making an effort despite of all the horrible things I’ve had to go through and still going through 😢 I wish so badly that the gamification of Numo would be more similar to the beginning when you could earn a freeze if you’ve earned enough points… that way you still get credit for your long-term effort even if you’d have a missed day, like me from unforeseen events that you have to tackle. I am so sad now. Because I feel it’s so unfair. But I understand it’s a “game”. But please make the game a bit more human so we can have the opportunity of a second chance.

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furmama

4 miesiące temu

I know this an old post, but I pray that are doing well. Could you give us some kind of update just so we know you are ok? Dealing with all of that can so be mentally, emotionally, and physically overwhelming. I’ve only just joined, but I already feel a sense of community. I hope you do too. Praying for you and your daughter. 🙏

shugalot

rok temu

1st off thanks for sharing that I know it must be tough, but nothing can take your efforts you’ve made in the past, you gained knowledge through those days, some time we slip and fall after a good distance. But the most important things is to stay positive and just keep pushing. Sometimes when there’s no one there to push you to do better u gotta inspire yourself…… I may not know you but to express your self to others shows a effort that most folks don’t do. So just keep ya head up

veezy

rok temu

It's okay, just means that you can build up to that again 😊

AuDHDJuice

rok temu

Couldn’t scroll by. You’re going through so much. Please try and be kind to yourself. 200 days is a fantastic achievement, even more so with all you’re experiencing. Hope Numo can help you out. Wishing you all good things.

pinkkoala

rok temu

You are so strong. You can do this! 💪🏼💪🏼

caitrox

rok temu

I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this.

squader3

rok temu

🥳🥳

Camilitarok temu

What are we celebrating?

dima

2 lata temu

Hi Camilita! I have to reply. And let me start by saying: you are amazing. Yes, you’re amazing. After everything you’ve been hit with, and yet, you’re still standing, still fighting. I hope you see that in yourself because it’s so clear to me. In this chaos, a streak might seem like a beacon, something small to hold on to, something to prove to yourself that you’re still moving forward. But let me remind you that you are so much more than a number. Your strength can’t be reduced to a streak. A streak doesn’t measure the depth of your courage, the weight of your love for your daughter, or the sheer will it takes to get through each day. Every time you show up, no matter how broken you feel, you win. I’ve restored your streak, but more importantly, I want you to restore faith in yourself. You’ve shown more resilience than most people ever will in a lifetime. The journey you’re on isn’t about perfection — it’s about showing up, even when it’s hard, even when you’re tired. And you’re doing that. The game can wait. Numbers can wait. But you? You’re everything. You are limitless. Don’t let anyone or anything make you forget that. No number, no game, no moment of doubt can ever take away the light power that lives inside you. You’re in the middle of a storm right now, but storms end. And you? You will still be standing when it’s over. Stronger. Unstoppable. Take a deep breath and look at yourself. Look at what you’ve overcome. That’s where your real power is. You lost one day, but that doesn’t erase the 200+ days you’ve crushed. Sending all the energy and love your way! The streak didn’t make you — you made that streak. And streaks break. You don’t.

theadhdmomrok temu

This reply was so beautiful and kind. It really resonated here. Amazing words.

Camilitarok temu

I have been so anxious about answering the replies to my post. ❤️‍🩹 I realised I shouldn’t have posted this officially at all, but ADHD-me didn’t have the patience to send a private email or at least express myself with more integrity… 😔 My intention wasn’t to ask for a reset of my streak. I felt so ashamed when I realised it seemed like I had been… and I even had a hard time accepting the reset and even thought about loosing it on purpose (I know, self sabotage is not pretty) But all I was trying do to was to push for an improvement of the reward system, and gamify it a step further so that we can earn freezes or lives. ⭐️🍄⭐️✨ Just like in a Super Mario game, you don’t completely loose all the way back to zero, but depending on the “lives” you have you left you get a few chances before -> ☠️ I know I expressed myself chaotically and my intention might not have been clear… but I did the best I could as I was not in a good place mentally. I’m still not ok, but a little bit less chaotic at least. 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛 And Dima 🥹💛 Thank you from the very bottom of my heart! You had me in tears, sobbing and I have read your reply a thousands of times. It feels like a comforting hug and as if you offer me a shoulder to cry on. You inspire me to try to be less hard on myself. You have always been so heavenly kind to me and I appreciate you so much. Thank you 💛

bonkity13rok temu

that is so powerful and true ♥️ you matter so much more and we are proud of you

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